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2,148 parents in the community
Live Q&A · Tuesday 8pm AST · AI in schools
New space opened · Smart Home Setup Help
2,148 parents in the community
Live Q&A · Tuesday 8pm AST · AI in schools
New space opened · Smart Home Setup Help
The DDD Community
You’re not
You’re not
parenting alone.
A private, Caribbean-led space for parents who want to learn out loud, ask the embarrassing questions, and share what’s actually working in their household — without the algorithm watching.
Karen R. · Castries · 2h
Set up Family Sharing for my 11yo’s new phone exactly like Module 02 said. Took 12 minutes. He didn’t even complain.
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Junior B. · Kingston · 5h
Got the “Mom I lost my phone” WhatsApp message yesterday. Caught it because of last week’s session. Pinned the screenshot for the team.
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Andrea S. · Port of Spain · 1d
My 14yo asked ChatGPT to “write like me” for her essay. We had the conversation. It went… better than I expected actually.
❤ 67💬 23
Share a win, ask a question…
What you get
Membership, in plain English.
No Discord chaos, no Facebook group chaos. A calm, moderated space built for Caribbean families — by a Caribbean dad.
Weekly live Q&A with Oshaine.
Every Tuesday at 8pm AST. Bring one question. Leave with three answers and a plan for the week. Recordings stay in the vault.
Private moderated spaces.
By topic, by age, by island.
Real parents, real names.
Verified Caribbean households only.
Every course included.
Foundations membership unlocks the entire catalog — Phone, AI, Gaming, Smart Home, Teens. New courses drop into the same membership for free.
The Alert Network.
When a new Caribbean scam hits — WhatsApp prize, fake parent call, school app phishing — members get the heads-up before the news does.
Inside the community
Twelve spaces. One island feeling.
Each space is moderated by a parent who’s been there. Threaded conversations, not hot takes.
#first-phones
Real setups from real households. Screenshots welcome. Judgement not.
342 members14 posts today
#gaming-parents
Roblox, Fortnite, Discord. The age-rating debate. The chat-off-now debate.
418 members22 posts today
#ai-and-homework
What our kids are doing. What schools are asking. What we’re doing about it.
289 members9 posts today
#smart-home-help
Wi-Fi routers, cameras, voice assistants. Your setup, our eyes on it.
196 members4 posts today
#hard-conversations
Cyberbullying, sexting, deepfakes. The threads we wish we didn’t need.
261 membersModerated · 18+
#weekly-wins
The everyday victories. The setups that stuck. The convos that went better than expected.
892 members57 posts this week
+ 6 more spaces inside: #scam-alerts, #screen-time, #island-by-island, #teen-social, #educational-tech, #founders-lounge
Real members
The folks already inside.
Names changed where requested. Stories are theirs.
Marlon
Port of Spain · Trinidad
“My son went from hiding his screen to showing me his TikTok. The community made that possible.”
Founding2 kids
Karen
Castries · St. Lucia
“I’m not the tech parent. After three months here, I am.”
Spaces moderator
Andrea
Kingston · Jamaica
“Tuesday Q&As are the only meeting I never miss. Even the work ones.”
Live Q&A regular
Junior
Bridgetown · Barbados
“Caught a WhatsApp scam aimed at my daughter because of a post in #alerts. That’s the membership paying for itself.”
Founding3 kids
Coming up
Full calendar →
This month, live with the team.
28
May
AI in the Classroom — Live workshop
Oshaine + a regional teacher panel. What schools are actually saying about ChatGPT, and what to do at home.
04
Jun
Tuesday Q&A — Summer phones, summer screen time
What to negotiate before the school holidays. Bring one question.
11
Jun
Smart Home Walkthrough — Bring your router
Live screen-share. Oshaine sets up real members’ Wi-Fi parental controls on camera, one by one.
18
Jun
Founding Members Dinner — Montego Bay
Our first-ever in-person meetup for founding members. Food, fellowship, the real conversations.
Membership
Three ways in.
Start free. Upgrade when you’re ready. Cancel any time — we don’t do dark-pattern subscriptions.
Open
Free Member
$0/forever
Read-only access to the public spaces. Get the weekly newsletter. See what the movement feels like.
- Read 3 public spaces
- Weekly newsletter
- Free starter guide
- Digital Parenting 101 course
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Steady Parent
$12/month
Full community access, every course, live Q&A, and the alert network. The membership 90% of parents choose.
- All 12 community spaces
- Every course, every update
- Weekly live Q&A + recordings
- The Caribbean Alert Network
- One free workshop per quarter
Founding
Founding Family
$240/year
Everything in Steady, plus founding-member benefits, in-person meetups, and a lifetime locked rate.
- Everything in Steady Parent
- Founding member badge
- In-person regional meetups
- Lifetime-locked $240/yr rate
- Lifetime access if we ever sunset
House rules
How we treat each other.
This is a parents’ space. It looks like a parents’ space. It feels like one too. These six rules are not negotiable — for anyone, including the founder.
Read the full code →01
Real names, real households.
Every member is a verified Caribbean parent. No bots, no marketers, no anonymous accounts.
02
What’s said here, stays here.
Screenshots leave the community only with permission. Family stories are not content.
03
Curious, not judgmental.
Every parent here is doing their best. We ask questions before we have opinions.
04
No selling, no MLMs, no funnels.
Not even ours. The community is the product. There’s no upsell inside.
05
Kids’ faces stay private.
If you share a screenshot, blur the names and the photos. Always.
06
Politics goes elsewhere.
We’re a digital safety movement, not a Twitter feed. Strong opinions about apps are fine. Strong opinions about parties are not.
Join the movement
It takes a village.
It takes a village.
Ours has 2,148 of them already.
Free starter membership. Two minutes to join. Zero spam, zero pressure.